1,5 hour
NL
Betty Loha is an author, speaker, and theatre maker who gives voice to what often remains unspoken for years through her deeply personal story. In her work, she openly shares her experiences with child abuse, sexual abuse, and the long journey from trauma to recovery. Her talks are honest, confronting, and moving, showing that even after the most difficult experiences, there can be space for resilience, personal growth, and reclaiming control over one’s own life.
Betty Loha is an author, speaker, and theatre maker. Through her openness, strength, and authenticity, she makes difficult social topics discussable and deeply moves her audience.
In her keynote, Betty shares her personal life story—one that remained hidden for many years and is marked by child abuse, sexual abuse, trauma, and a long journey toward safety, identity, and healing. Above all, however, it is a story of resilience: the choice not to be defined by your past, but to take control of your future direction.
With her book Mam, ik kan niet meer, Betty has reached thousands of readers. More than 3,500 copies have been sold, and a fifth edition is currently in preparation. Her autobiographical theatre performance Wat niemand
zag has also touched a wide audience, selling out four shows and will soon be performed in Curaçao, Aruba, and Bonaire.
Over the years, Betty has received increasing media attention for her story and mission. She has appeared on programs such as Carrie op Vrijdag and in various national and regional media, including AD.nl. Her powerful life story is also the basis for a documentary produced by Gerjan van Lopik, scheduled for release in autumn 2026.
During her lectures, Betty connects her personal experiences to contemporary issues relevant to organizations, professionals, and audiences today. Topics include mental health, resilience, coping with adversity, personal growth, boundary setting, trauma, and recovery.
What makes Betty unique is her ability not only to open up difficult conversations, but also to offer perspective. Her story shows that even after the darkest periods, space can emerge for growth, connection, and hope.
Topics that may be covered:
- Resilience and recovery after trauma
- Mental health and wellbeing
- Coping with loss and adversity
- Personal leadership and self-direction
- The power of vulnerability
- Child abuse and its long-term impact
- Sexual abuse and recovery
- Self-confidence, identity, and personal development
A lecture by Betty Loha is honest, powerful, and inspiring. Audiences leave with new insights, a renewed perspective on resilience, and the realization that change is always possible.
Reviews
, Hélène van Oudheusden
What an impressive talk, Betty. Thank you for your openness, your strength, and your courage. Through your story, you not only offer others insight, but you also help prevent suffering among children. I take my hat off to your courage and kindness.
, Reem
A while ago, I met Betty when she came to our office to share her moving story. The way she did this—with real-life examples and sharp insights—sometimes literally gave me goosebumps. She shared things I hadn’t expected from our society; things we often don’t see, or perhaps don’t want to see. That’s what makes her story so special and valuable. Keep it up, Betty! You’re making the world just a little bit better.
, Melle Wachtmeester
Wow, what a powerhouse! From such a difficult childhood to becoming a powerhouse! I attended one of Betty’s talks during the INEA festival. She spoke for an hour and a half, and not for a single second was I distracted or bored. I’m grateful that I had the opportunity to attend this talk. She’s an inspiration to many.
, Kristien W
I’m so glad I was able to attend Betty’s talk. It was a powerful and moving story, yet she delivered it with such humility and a wonderful sense of humor. May you continue to educate and inspire many more people, Betty!
, Tessa Dillen
What a beautiful and courageous way to share such a personal story. Betty draws you right into her story and manages to captivate you from start to finish. Very wise and inspiring!
, Natalie van Amen
Last week, Betty shared her moving story with our students. The room was dead silent… everyone listened with bated breath. A tear here and there, goosebumps all around. Her powerful words touched us all. It’s a story that stays with you—a story that stays with you in your heart and in your work. Moments like these are priceless. This story must continue to be told by this powerful woman! Respect
, Bastiaan Beentje
During my internship, I had the opportunity to hear Betty’s story. It’s a moving story, and it’s truly inspiring to see how hard she fought to get where she is today. It’s incredibly impressive how far she’s come. She evokes a lot of emotion in her audience, which is a remarkable feat. She completely draws you into her story. By the end, you’re speechless. She’s truly an amazing speaker!
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