1 (solo) performer
Indoor
Wedding official
1,5 hour
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NL
A Self-Fidelity ceremony is a unique celebration of self-love, inner strength and balance between your masculine and feminine sides. Together we look at your life path and life lessons. Based on that, I write an empowering speech that clarifies your themes and insights.
During the ceremony I use symbolic rituals such as handbinding/handfasting, reading your self-written love letter and an inner strength exercise. This way you connect your energies and become more powerful.
Whether you celebrate it intimately or together with friends and family: a Marriage with Yourself ceremony is always a festive and spiritual moment - a wholehearted 'YES' to yourself.
Marry Yourself is a special Self-Fidelity ceremony in which you choose your own happiness. It is a unique celebration of self-love, inner strength and the balance between your masculine and feminine sides.
I am Ellen Worm, ceremony speaker in the Netherlands, specialized in symbolic weddings, self-marriage ceremonies and personal rituals around love, life and farewell. My own path of self-love and inner growth inspires me to create ceremonies that are not only moving, but also give lasting power and meaning.
As a ceremony speaker, I guide you step by step. In a personal conversation, you share your life story. Together we map out your life path and life lessons. On this basis, I write an empowering speech in which your themes
and insights become clearly visible. This gives you the feeling that you have remained true to yourself - or that you are consciously choosing to be so from this moment on.
During the ceremony, I use meaningful rituals that help you anchor this new beginning:
✨ Handbinding / handfasting - I bind your hands with ribbons. The right hand symbolizes your masculine side, the left hand your feminine. This allows you to experience more balance and firmness within yourself, so that you are more powerful and free in life.
✨ Self-written love letter - You read your own letter to yourself. An intimate and powerful moment in which you express your promises and wishes to yourself.
inner power exercise - With a guided ritual I invite you to really come home to yourself. An experience you can take with you and call up again and again in your daily life.
Whether you celebrate this intimately - as a couple - or together with friends and family: a Marry Yourself ceremony is always a loving choice to focus on your path, your balance and your happiness.
You can choose to invite your family or friends to this festive celebration, or we can keep it intimate and only experience it together. We'll have a dance, toast to your choice and celebrate your marriage with yourself! ??
Reviews
, Diana
On June 1, 2024, I had the privilege of being present at the wedding of André and Arabella, where Ellen led the ceremony. Her sparkling presence (further highlighted by her beautiful colorful outfit) and generous smile relaxed both the bride and groom and the guests. In addition to the beautiful sand ceremony where all family members poured in a color appropriate to their character and the loving and emotional handfasting that Ellen led both loosely and in a structured manner, there was also room for stories. In addition to the "how did you get to know each other" that all guests naturally loved hearing about, Ellen had delved much deeper into the things important to the bride and groom. Goddess Freya, the vision and intention of the motorcycle club and the bond with children and witnesses. Loved ones not present or deceased were also given their own space and honored. Time after time I was moved by the depth Ellen knew how to bring so naturally. Always followed by a hearty laugh, because a wedding should also be a happy affair. I am no longer planning to get married, but if I were, I would definitely ask Ellen to conduct the ceremony.
, Gerard
Then, as a wedding officiant, you are offered a wedding by a beautiful married couple. With the announcement that you only have to do the official part and that the entire ceremony is in the hands of Ellen Worm. A little Googling reveals that she is a pleasant person with a lot of experience in various subjects. Mainly in the field of coaching and support. To discuss marriage with her I made an appointment to have a 'live' conversation. There appears to be a friendly empathic people-person. Good conversation showing enthusiasm for the upcoming marriage that we then have to take care of together. Afterwards Ellen appears to have so much energy that she has already arranged the lion's share of the organizing and also the speech. For me, it was like coming into a prepared bed. The day of the wedding itself was a party. Watching her, I saw someone who delivered a good speech containing the points essential to the wedding couple in a respectful, sensitive and also humorous way. She also responded humorously to reactions from both the couple and the audience. I myself had no experience with handfasting and sand rituals and watched with attention how she integrated this into the wedding ceremony. Those involved were touched. (Marriage couple and several children!) All in all, should I want to do another wedding with someone, she is my choice.
, Arabella
Ellen guided our ceremony warmly, respectfully and with humor. Thank you Ellen. May other brides and grooms also find the happiness of having their ceremony conducted by you
, A
Hi Ellen, the service for mom was beautiful. Warm, loving and "granny-worthy" my daughter said. Many compliments on the content. How beautiful people thought it was that her whole life was covered and not just the last few years. The content, but also the way it was presented. The peace in between with music they liked so much! And a big part came from you. Thank you for your pleasant guidance and the beautiful conversations that came about thanks to you. Kind regards,
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